Witnessing a loved one go through any hardship can be overwhelming and cause emotional turmoil. Often, individuals don’t want to consider such possibilities when their loved one is facing health issues or complications. The pain and disheartenment experienced by the families of dialysis patients are inexplicable; however, they often have the urge to put their best foot forward in making the process a little better for the one on dialysis. Now, while the emotions and care of the dialysis patient are there, one might not know the right approach to offer help.
In this blog, we will be discussing a few things families of dialysis patients must know,
Know and understand the treatment:
Kidneys are responsible for removing waste and extra fluid from your blood. However, when kidneys fail, this function is done artificially to ensure the person doesn’t fall sick or experience further complications due to excess toxins in the blood. This process is known as dialysis; however, not every patient requires the same plan. Hence, as their family or closed one, it is crucial to understand the medical route chosen by professionals.
The treatment itself can be painful and physically exhausting; however, it can have some mental impact on the individual as well. Hence, discuss with doctors what to expect and what you can do to offer better support.
Ensure to be there through lifestyle changes:
While being on dialysis changes a person’s diet, their lifestyle also goes through a shift. As someone close to them, it is crucial to provide support with empathy. Instead of being a constant reminder of the situation, divert your efforts towards empowering them through the changes.
You can help them connect with support groups or attend workshops with them that provide guidance to navigate such situations.
Try to find a living donor for them:
Finding a kidney donor can be daunting and not every person willing to be a donor can be a match. Hence, the process itself can be challenging. In such situations, where you are not the match, you can continue to take efforts to find a donor. Discuss with the patient if they will be comfortable with sharing their story on social media and connecting with other family members and friends to find a match.
Such conversations can be daunting and challenging, hence it is better to be as considerate as possible with the patient.
Check for signs of depression:
Individuals on dialysis can be more prone to fall into depression. As a close one, you can be a keen observer. If you notice signs such as fatigue, sleep problems, headaches, loss of appetite, mood swings or isolation be sure to seek medical help.
Encourage the individual to share their mind with you, and help them to find the right professional guidance.
Some simple ways to be there:
Apart from the ways mentioned above, one can prepare renal-friendly meals for individuals on dialysis or accompany them to the sessions. In addition, one can also offer to take care of their household while they go for the session.
Dialysis can be challenging; however, having someone to support and encourage can help one feel better. As a family member, it is crucial to be someone who helps and offers support to the individual and ensures they feel good during the difficult situations as well.